Monthly Archives February 2016

La Petite Peach_February Round Up

Can you believe February is almost over?! How did that happen?  I thought a great way to share what I love this month was with a “top 10”. Here are the things that I loved this month, you can shop this post from the links below or by clicking on the images. Oh and TGIF!

 

1. dpHUE: Apple Cider Vinegar Hair Rinse 2. Spell Designs: Blossom Bralet 3. Madewell: ‘The Transport’ Leather Tote 4. Ray-Bay: Original Aviator 5. Mon Petit: The T-Strap Shoe 6. Wilt: Big Black Slant Solid Sweater 7. Briar: Natural Stripe Bonnet 8. GAP: Floppy Straw Hat 9. Hunter Boots: Original Tall Gloss Boots 10. F. Scott Fitzgerald: This Side of Paradise

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We all feel insecure, inadequate, and scared sometimes. Being afraid of failure is something that we don’t need to fear at all. Seriously! I know you have heard it before, falling can make you stronger and wise, and I am here to tell you that it’s true! I can speak from experience, I had a business doing something I thought I loved. I made decent money doing it, but I hated it. The whole thing felt like a failure to me. When it ended I was relieved (you can read a little about my journey here). Now when I look back, it was the best learning experience I could have ever had. Knowing exactly what I never want to do again, is how I am able to be my best self now. Here are 10 of my best tips on how to throw the fear  of failure, right out the window of a moving car.

1. An Old Fashioned Pro/Con List: Break out the pen and paper and make a good ole’ pro and con list. Look at your list of cons/fears. Are they true? Are they REALLY TRUE? What would happen if they came true? What are the real worst-case scenarios and how much weight do they have in your life?

2. Let Go of  What Others Think: Listening too much to what other people think can really prevent us from taking creative or personal risks that  may turn out to be amazing. You have to let go of the fear of what other people will think if things go awry. Use this script if you need to: ” I thought _____ was a great idea, it was at the time actually, and I had fun doing it even though it didn’t work out like I thought it would”.

3. Stress Causes Wrinkles: No one wants a face that looks older than our age so take a deep breath, go to yoga, meditate, or treat yourself to a facial . Do whatever you need to do to de-stress because worrying doesn’t do anything besides add age to your face.

4. Take Small Leaps: I am not going to tell you to take huge financial risks or leaps here. Because yes, you need to make responsible adult decisions. However, you do need to take small leaps that can propel your life or business into successful outcomes. The only way to do it is to take risks, start small if that makes you more comfortable, but don’t worry excessively about the landing…just jump.

5. Enjoy the Process: It all seems a little less scary if you don’t read too much into potential outcomes, but rather live in the moment and enjoy the process it takes to get there. Some creative friends I work with have such a complex about what could go wrong that they miss all the fun it took to get there if they succeed.

6. Celebrate Small Successes: Even small victories deserve a reward! You work hard and you deserve to celebrate every time you meet a goal. You don’t have to spend money to treat yourself, try a quiet walk in the morning or a lunch break at the beach. Personally, a latte and a new notebook are just the treat I love after a successful accomplishment.

7. Be Prepared: If you are always well prepared and do your homework/research, then you are less likely to fail hard. A small fail is no biggie, but a big fail that can cost you money or your job is less likely the more prepped you are.

8. If You do Fail, Learn: Write down what you learned, don’t forget it, and learn from it. What I mean is there is a message in every outcome, what was yours? How can you avoid it next time? Take good notes on how you failed and how you can prevent it in the future.

9. Talk it Out: Talk to a friend, trusted colleague, spouse or business coach about your goals or ideas. Get feedback before you jump into  a project. Make sure you are asking people whose opinions you value and who can offer real constructive advice. If things don’t work out the way you thought, you know you have someone to share a bottle of wine with and vent.

10. Make a gratitude list: It’s not the end of the world if you stumble, there are so many things to be grateful for. Make that list now and tape it to your bedside table, bathroom mirror or car console to remind yourself of that.

 

Photo by Rebecca Hansen

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Healthy Banana Flax Bread Recipe

Filed under: Food, Lifestyle

By Desiree Spinner

La Petite Peach_Healthy Banana Flax Bread Recipe

Wesleigh and I are the only ones in our house who like bananas, so I ALWAYS have at least two left over before they go completely bad. Last week I had 4 bananas that needed to be eaten that day, and so I made some healthy banana bread. I have to say that it came out delicious. Here is the recipe below. Let me know how yours turns out!

Ingredients:

4 Large Very Ripe Bananas

1 tsp. of Cinnamon

3 tbs. of Flax Seeds

1tsp. of Whole Milk

3/4 Cup of Sugar

1 Stick of Butter (1 cup or 8 oz)

2 Eggs

1 Cup of Whole Wheat Flour

1 Cup of White Flour

1 tsp of Baking Soda

1 tsp of Baking Powder

1 tsp. Salt

Directions: Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

1. Beat butter and sugar in a mixer then slowly add eggs one at a time.

2. In a separate bowl mix together the bananas, milk and cinnamon then add to the sugar mixture.

3. In another bowl combine the dry ingredients: Both types of flour, baking soda, baking powder, and salt then add to the mixer slowly until all the ingredients are combined. Add the flax seeds last.

4. Add the batter to a loaf pan that has been sprayed with cooking spray to prevent the loaf from sticking.

5. Bake for 1 hour and 10 minutes until a tooth pick comes out clean from the center of the loaf. Let cool on a rack for 15 minutes.